Revolutionary Nuptials
Judith Sargent Murray's "Story of Margaretta"
The Gleaner
Though Murray refused to reject marriage as wholly as Wollstonecraft, her
views on the institution were still considered radical for the time.
Murray wrote the story of Margaretta using the conventions of the day,
creating a well-known story which she presents as truth rather than
fiction. Murray complicated this convention, however, by writing as a
man. She wrote her column in the Massachusetts Magazine under the
male identity "The Gleaner" (she also used the name "Constantia" in other
publications), so that in the story of Margaretta, Murray discusses "his"
wife and their adopted daughter.
Murray cannot seem to come wholly to terms with her feminist
inclinations. She seems to want to support Wollstonecraft but cannot
bring herself to dismiss marriage with the same fervor as her English
contemporary. Murray is unprepared to rid the world of the institution of
marriage, whereas Wollstonecraft advocates this abolition, despite what
her biography might suggest. Instead, Murray critiques certain aspects of
marriage and courtship. As readers see in the story of Margaretta, Murray
objects to early marriages--despite what her biography
suggests--and encourages young people to cooperate with their parents.
Murray's views on marriage are difficult to pinpoint because of their
apparent contradictions. Murray "was contemptuous of any union not
founded on mutuality and equality while advocating wifely submission and
holding women responsible for the success of most marriages. Murray's
conflicting views were not the product of muddled thinking or hypocrisy
but a reflection of the limits within which all women operated in postwar
America" (Skemp 62). She wanted marriages to be equal but also placed
more responsibility on women. The character of Margaretta illustrates
this belief. Although Margaretta is the picture of virtue, but she
believes her husband, Mr. Hamilton, to be having an affair with her dear
friend. Rather than confronting him, she invites his supposed mistress to
live with them. At one point, she even offers to live a life of shame and
separate from her husband to preserve his happiness. In the end, her
virtue is rewarded, of course, and she discovers that Mr. Hamilton is not
having an affair with Serafina. Rather, the two discovered that they
share a father and had been commiserating upon that subject and the
increasing debt of Mr. Hamilton. Still, her views on marriage were
radical as she emphasized the importance of equality and believed
"marriage should be a choice, not an inevitability" (Skemp 71), in a
world where "the words 'wife' and 'woman' were more or less
interchangable" (61).
Murray made her opinions on courtship clear, however. She felt it
unreasonable for courtship to be based solely on the man's actions. She
admitted "that women risked criticism by deviating from time-honored
practice but thought that in some circumstances a woman might ignore
convention and propose to her lover instead of waiting meekly for him to
take the initiative" (66). Despite this liberal idea, Murray also felt
that young people should refer to their parents' judgment if they are
unsure of the appropriate action to take.
Relevant Bibliography Entries
Judith Sargent Murray's Timeline
- 1751
Judith is born on May 1.
- 1769
Judith Sargent marries John Stevens.
- 1777
Fifteen Universalists form Gloucester's Independent Church of Christ, the
first Universalist Church in America.
- 1782
Judith Sargent Stevens publishes her Universalist catechism.
- 1784
Judith Sargent Stevens publishes "Desultory thoughts upon the utility of
encouraging a degree of self-complacency,
especially in female bosoms".
- 1787
John Stevens dies in St. Eustatius.
- 1788
Judith Sargent Stevens marries John Murray.
- 1790
Judith Sargent Murray publishes "On the equality of the sexes."
- 1792-1794
Judith Sargent Murray publishes her "Gleaner" and "Repository" essays in Massachusetts Magazine.
- 1795
Judith Sargent Murray's The Medium, or Virtue Triumphant is
performed at Boston's Federal Street Theater.
- 1798
Judith Sargent Murray publishes her three volume-work, The Gleaner.
- 1808
Judith Sargent Murray's The African is performed at Boston's Federal Street Theater.
- 1815
John Murray dies.
- 1816
Judith Sargent Murray publishes Life of John Murray, by himself. With a continuation by Mrs. Judith Sargent
Murray.
- 1818
Judith Sargent Murray moves to Natchez, Mississippi with her daughter and granddaughter.
- 1820
Judith Sargent Murray dies.
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